misconceptions

perceptions.

this is what i think you think.

this is what i think you mean.

this is what gets in the way of communication. we're reading too much into everything, and thus expressing what we think the other person wants to hear.

i'm sick of that. lets say what we mean. clearly. without room for misconception. that way we don't have to fight or worry. that way we can just know that we're cool. that way we can just rest in the security of our relationship.

or maybe thats just too idealistic.